It's Not About the " Other Person "

Some people think that a relationship is either good or bad because of an appearance of the other person, but do you even aware that life doesn't happen that way. You can't tell someone to the force of love just like - " I will give love only when the other person gives it to me!".

  

You won't receive anything in life unless you give it first! Whatever you give to others is what you give to yourself. It is totally not about the other person at all. It is all about you! yourself! It's all about what you are actually giving and what you are feeling in the relationship. If you gave love to someone and it's through kindness, encouragement, support, tolerance, gratitude or any good feeling.. It will comes back to you and multiplies itself and you will bringing love to every other area of your life include your success, happiness and career. But if all you gave is just only negativity to others through criticism, anger, impatience, dishonest or any bad feelings... you will be guaranteed that will receive that negativity back. It will multiplies itself and attracting more negativity which will effects the rest of your life! 

You know that you can change any relationship right now by looking for things you love, you appreciate and you are grateful for in that person. When you make a deliberate effort to look for the things you love more than you notice the negativity on things, then a miracle will take place. It will just appear to you as through something incredible has happened to the other person. But if it's the force of love that is incredible and because of that, it does dissolves the temporary negativity including the negativity in the relationships, all you have to do is just to harness the force of love by looking for the things you actually do love in the person, I believe that everything will change in the relationship.

  

  ~ JC ~